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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

It is my understanding that......

we rarely get what we want when we fear NOT having it, more than or equal to the level of desire that we have for that person or situation in our lives. It is a rare individual that has not gone through that or something similiar at one point or another in their lives....

What are you manifesting in your life? Are you manifesting your own fears? And creating them because you fear not having that person, or thing so much thereby drawing attention from the universe to what you fear rather than towards manifesting what you really want. Just because YOU want something in your life NOW! does not mean that person or thing is on YOUR timetable or is capable of giving YOU what want or desire.

Know that what is for you will not pass you by, maybe not NOW!! But if it is meant to be, it WILL BE. Know that and relax......... :-)

Joan

Published Monday, April 06, 2009 9:06 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Friday, July 25, 2008 8:35 AM

Amen to that Joan.  I have been taught the lesson of patience over and over in my life and it is a hard lesson to swallow.  I have come to know that you can have what you desire but it is all in God's time not yours!  Blessings and thanks for the reminder today for I am in the middle of being impatient about a matter myself that I want resolved.  I am sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for answer and I know that I have to shift my focus and just accept that it is here and I have it already!  

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Friday, July 25, 2008 9:03 AM

Patience in general is not in high supply these days from anyONE for anyTHING. Not on the roads, not in relationships, friendships, not waiting for phone calls, not waiting for responses to email, texts, you name it, NO one wants to wait, but LIFE has a special way of making us wait...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Friday, July 25, 2008 11:52 AM

hi Joan,
this is me your blog. how do you get this patience to wait for things that are good for you and not want it now right now !!! how do you do that????? I'm am trying but it is very hard. I think god had you write this today for all of us impatience people.
thank you very much,
Donna

Donna2424

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Saturday, July 26, 2008 8:59 AM

Patience is never easy but I KNOW from personal experience that when you are impatient you WILL be tested and tested over and over. What I have learned is that when I did not listen to my intuition, and NOT grab the first thing that comes my way, even better shows up. And sometimes we have to learn that the first thing is not as good for us as we may have first thought. My favourite quote from Calling in the One by Katherine Woodward Thomas goes *Some people do not have relationships, they take hostages* because they are so lost in being in control, and so fearful that we hold on tightly, and that is never good.... it smothers the relationship and besides we have NO choice but to get on with our lives because whether we are patient or not, we may be forced to wait anyway....
we are not in control and to know that is quite freeing....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Monday, April 06, 2009 10:33 AM

I feel like you are talking about me Joan. Thanks, I needed to read this. Fear is a killer.
cathy d

cdefranc

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Monday, April 06, 2009 10:40 AM

Cathy it was not about you,:-) we all fear, we all create problems for ourselves...because we are so afraid... and fear is false information appearing real...not necessarily something that is real...but I am glad you got something from it....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Monday, April 06, 2009 11:22 AM

Reminds me of the saying "If it's not this, then it's something better."  

Ironically, over the years and admittedly without my Ego's consent, I find that God knows exactly what I need and the source doesn't need any reminders to get me there. (If you can believe that!!!)

And when I slack off and it's important to get moving, God knows eactly HOW to get me up and going. And again without my Ego's consent.

All I can say is just keep moving and TRUST that what you are seeking is on it's way.  

BattingAlone

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Monday, April 06, 2009 11:30 AM

God or the universe usually has a better plan than us, a better way to get things moving and or a better way to stretch us beyond our comfort zone....and that ONLY comes WITHOUT the consent of our bossy ego's...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Tuesday, April 07, 2009 8:20 PM

LOL!

"Bossy Ego"

:)LWW

Little White Witch Tarot

# re: It is my understanding that...... @ Wednesday, April 08, 2009 4:28 AM

Our ego's are normally what hurts when a person does not want us, but that's not the essence of who we really are.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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