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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

Let go and Let God is....
a frequently heard saying and yet......I find that those that are more likely to use such sayings are less likely to adhere to such things....
Let's be honest........break ups are HARD.... and SOME people have a hard time dealing with them.............
Letting go means, no calls, no emails, no texts, NONE, that means NOT at all...
Letting go means, no sneaking around, checking their emails, listening in on phone calls, calling and listening to their voice mail or stalking them.
Letting go means you do not use bargaining chips or tools against them to get what you want.
Letting go means you do not manipulate them by ANY means.
Letting go means you have the faith to see that whatever the universe decides is best for you is what WILL happen, having that faith is what letting go and letting God is all about....
That is what letting go means.......
EASY to SAY, HARD to do.....
While break-ups are hard, there may be no rhyme or reason to what's occurred, however pushing to get closure from the other person may not achieve anything except resentment from them.....
This is the the thing about the ability to change your mind at any time about any thing and normally when people do that it's without full consideration of how that may affect others.
As they say in Ireland, what's for you won't pass you by.....
So what you need to figure out is are you only talking the talk when you should be walking the walk?
Joan

Published Thursday, July 09, 2009 7:29 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Let go and Led God is.... @ Thursday, July 09, 2009 11:45 AM

To me, letting go is about ACCEPTING what IS (verses dwelling on what if's) and moving forward by focusing on what needs to be done given where you are situated in the present circumstance. I think that when one focuses on "directing" the moment verses "living" in the moment they block the devine plans unfolding and create undue stress.

I also agree it takes patience, discipline and trust, but I know from experience it works. But that's just my view. Thank you for sharing.  

BattingAlone

# re: Let go and Led God is.... @ Thursday, July 09, 2009 12:05 PM

YES, I say that Acceptance is KEY, accepting what IS, as opposed to what coulda, shoulda, and woulda happened which interferes with what WILL be!!  And yes it is indeed harder to do that say. So yes, doing it, is harder than we think but it pays off BIG!
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Let go and Let God is.... @ Thursday, July 09, 2009 6:13 PM

Great Article Joan and so very well said.  Thanks for sharing this with us today.  

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Let go and Let God is.... @ Thursday, July 09, 2009 7:08 PM

People attempt to control what they fear, attempting to control situations by calling a reader or many readers, hanging on exact timing predictions and those kinds of behavior normally ruin any hope of predictions actually occurring. Which is not letting go at all or having faith on any level. Break ups are hard, some people (like the guy in Conn who set fire to his home with his soon to be ex wife IN IT!)do not take them well, but they happen and we have no control over it!! It is when we can let it go and not allow our egos to take over that we move past that pain and experience love again.....the quicker you move past it, the quicker the rewards come !!
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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