Let me straighten this misconception out...
my previous blog was not complaining about negative feedback, in case anyone thought that, let's face it even if none of us like bad feedback we have no right to say that the person who got the reading did not see the reading from the negative perspective their feedback said they did.
What I WAS saying was that if you call with a preconceived idea of what you want to hear and are disapointed that you did not hear what you wanted, you do have to understand that different readers can pick up different things. Many readings the same does not guarantee a specific outcome unfortunately.
Sometimes a reader can pick up your desire if it really strong rather than the actuality of the situation and even a really good reader can be hard pressed to tell the difference. Sometimes an after the fact discovery makes a reading make sense as sometimes during the reading I actually have to ask if what I am getting makes sense to the caller as it does not to me when I pick it up.
And two minutes is not a long time to give a first time reader and it is not a fair amount of time to accurately judge the reading or the reader. Howver if that is what you choose to do, readers have no choice but to deal with that kind of issue.
If you are angry or frustrated you may not get an accurate read. If you have called four or five different readers the same day, you may not get an accurate read. If you test the readers, that can also affect the reading you get.
Having said that some readers may not connect with you and I have gotten into the habit of doing a first quick read to see if the caller and I are connecting..... but even if I was able to tell you what the person had for breakfast, what color socks they wore, eyes they had, that does not accurately predict 100% in future predictions. This is not just making excuses as I know all about the *free will* thing that really annoys some people, it is just a known fact that life presents many variables to us and one choice can change many things.
These kind of things ( readings) have so many variables that can affect the outcome and that is not an excuse it is a fact. Choose wisely, think carefully, do not become dependent, limit the number of your calls and by all means leave your feedback, it is your right and you pay for it.
Joan