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My blogging code of ethics.....
I will not tamper with the comments, made by others on my blog,
it goes against my ethics whose unliked responses I could flog.
I promise not to write rude retorts, and keep it right on topic
and not to mention hot collar issues, incase it gets myopic.
I promise not to hog the blogs, it seems that's kinda rude
although at the same time I don't  want to come across as a prude.
I don't want to seem as if I am the blog police, that's really not my place
but it seems as if they have become a little like myspace...
All the drama, all the time, played out for all to see
when we all have so much wisdom that could be shared for free
It's supposed to be a healing place, not for arguments or strife
a place to learn of  all the way ways we could use to improve our life.
So maybe if we all could try to be a little less judgemental
and move these blogs back to being keen fundemental...

Published Tuesday, March 04, 2008 10:17 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 7:28 PM

the rude comments are out of control. i have deleted so many rude remarks. i decided to start responding to some of the comments. it is sad but the blogs are for education not competition.

justaskdrdonna

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 7:33 PM

I never delete or alter ANY comment, I may respond, or let it stand alone, however I have found that upon RE-reading the comments that they were rarely as rude as my first read of them led me to believe they were.
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 5:04 AM

Joan,

I have had many comments over the course of this year, that I could of deleted very easily.
Some I did, they were done by advisors and clients that had negative energy being thrown out with disregard for others and their energy.

I will not delete if they display respect, I think that is a simple rule.

I can remember a certain advisor actually going on my blog to attack another, that responded on their own blog, using my blog and myself as a way to do so, and it had nothing to do with me. And..The comment was less that tactful and held much hostility.
I think it really is important for people to understand that we ARE NOT exempt for our behaviors and need to be responsible for what leaves our mouths, even if we do not agree.
We have a Code of Ethics in everything in life.
Your on a roll Joan, good topic..

GIFTED11

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 5:10 AM

Codes of ethics appear to have gone out of the window in so many areas of our lives...
Sad but true, I find that people are less likely to use filters when they talk or write, only see things from their own perspective, and have little or no concern for how their words or actions effect others, sad but true.
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 5:51 AM

i have a known advisor who changes their name but uses the same script to attack me. they once used their keen name and so i decided to turn them in. it has to stop. i know advisors compete but why. be yourself and do not feel the need to ruin someone.

justaskdrdonna

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 6:17 AM

Speaking for myself, I have not nor have I ever had ANY other name on keen, not to call ANY advisor, nor comment on any blog. I also do not feel that ANYONE'S comment have the power to ruin anyone unless YOU allow it, it is not what someone does or says, it is how you CHOOSE to react to it. The victim mentality is not an attractive one, use the power that you have as a woman and advisor to deflect any negative energy and or words sent your way by anyone no matter what name they use, no matter what method they choose. Since I am not competetive, I have no answer to your question as to why some advisors compete. I say let the comments come, I have no problem with what others think anymore it is only their opinion, one I may share or not, simple as that :-)
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 6:47 AM

Joan,

Competetive would be only in the eyes of the beholder. I HAVE never felt competetive in all the years at keen. I laugh when I see the swords going, and those trying so hard to fit in or climb the wall to SUCCESS with relentless behavior towards one another.
Many people use many tactics and if you allow them into your skin, they will always find a place to get in and manifest.
Maybe I am just blind or maybe I just choose not to see or get caught up in chaotic behavior. Like I said, it lies in the eye of the beholder. You do not need tough skin or a loud mouth or digs of any sort to be a warrior of truth :)
and...Manipulation of any sorts, well we all know what happens when we pretend to be something we are not and try to lead with an iron fist. lol


GIFTED11

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 6:50 AM

i think that the callers count on us advisors to be honest but one just  hates me to no end. it is their issue. i do not feel anything negative from you at all. some just will not work on theirselves.

justaskdrdonna

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 7:00 AM

One cannot project upon another that they are not working upon themselves, one can only judge that from your own perspective and your personal perceptions of your interactions. Perhaps that is just your opinion and they are on their own journey, I for one think that hate is such a strong word and do not care to use it much in conversation or writing. I for one have not seen an instance of hate projected at you from anyone but I do not have the time to read all blog comments nor am I privy to private email interactions. I think we are ALL working on ourselves ALL the time, we may not see the results in the way we might want from others but like I tell my children the only people we can control is ourselves...:-)
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 7:31 AM

"He who has not sinned, shall he cast the first stone"

Usually people who cast stones, will be the ones crying loudly.
I do not know exactly why this is, I just have seen it time and time again.
This is just my assessment, not judging at anyone in particular. No one knows for sure what goes on behind closed doors, I have seen people make a huge stink, about things that did not actually happen inorder to be noticed, or did happen just do not know how to operate without chaos or drama.
That is why the "shift" that is taking place is going to heighten drama for those that seem to play that role well. That is why those who have manipulation attached,  will start to diminish greatly and have to deal with their own internal gages. We are building our worlds within, important to know your role. Important to know when to be silent, important to know when to speak, important to know the tools and become used to them as a part of you.

GIFTED11

# re: My blogging code of ethics..... @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 7:36 AM

I choose in real live and on Keen to disassosciate myself from the drama seekers in my life, I have no energy for that kind of energy in my space any more. I remember the person I was several years ago and I am proud of the changes and growth I have gone through.  Some may project that I am still that emotive person, but those are the ones who do not know the real me anymore and they are not in my life for reasons of my choosing. There are an awful lot of people with large glass houses busy throwing a lot of stones, but like I said its not how someone acts, does or says towards you that counts, its how you choose to react that really matters
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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