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Not a Fan of.....
the misleading email.....the one that tells you that someone was looking for you online....or like the one from the Advisor who has a *MESSAGE* for *YOU* but you need to call him/her...to get it.....Do they have the same message (OR are there specific messages  )  for every other person who got that email?
I just do not care to know who was searching for me IF I have to pay to join a web site and pay MONTHLY to find out WHO it was...
And IF I do want a reading, I WILL call but probably not the Advisor who emailed me telling me they had a *MESSAGE* for me, I for one am NOT comfortable with that kind of email...
Joan


Published Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:40 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:49 AM

haha don't they realize that we'll find out sooner or later, who the person is? If they really dig us, they'd have the courage to say something.

SisterScorpio

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:10 AM

I know but the readers sending the emails....REALLY bothers me.....it's an ABUSE of power because when WE are in crisis...WE may fall for that kind of stuff....which is NOT right...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:05 AM

I don't even open up the email. I'm afraid it might be a virus.  LOL.  Maybe I wouldn't want to hear from the person looking for me anyway. I could have 'weeded' my garden so to speak.

Luna Archer

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:52 AM

That's the thing about weeds....they sometimes come back....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 11:11 AM

Joan, that was an excellent post and I agree with you 110%.

To be a bit of a geek and continue the 'weeding the garden' analogy, it's a shame that we couldn't make a permanent solution to the weeds with out damaging the flowers.

E-mail scams, phone scams, and the countless amount of spam of the non-food variety is enough sometimes I just want to be a hermit. Then I realize that they'd eventually find me and that the cost of giving up my relationships to hide from the harassment is too high anyways.

It's really frustrating and I wish that people chose to be more respectful then to flood everybody and their cousin with these kinds of junk offers and scams. :(

So, in a nut shell, great post and you're preaching to the choir over here. :)

Cydira

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 12:13 PM

Oh, I'm sorry. In regards to weeding my garden I was referring to my ex-hubby. LOL.  We both have blossomed into our own beauty, just not together or with each other. But it's all good. Besides some weeds are actually good for gardens and can attract beneficial things to it.

Luna Archer

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 3:20 PM

Bring on the dandelions :-)
I hate all kinds of spam except monty python...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Thursday, April 16, 2009 2:29 PM

I know what you mean.For the past few weeks I keep getting the same mail from some online site over and over and over telling me some ex has been searching for me..and I keep deleting and deleting the email.
Unfortunately some others new to the internet or a younger person that may realize it's just a ploy to get you to join their site will go and do so.
Not a fan of that and glad you brought it up here.

Jewel265

# re: Not a Fan of..... @ Saturday, April 18, 2009 9:24 AM

It really bothers me and I do not condone it on any level for any advisor..
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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