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Not the Googling kind however......
And I never normally make comments about feedback, it should not matter if it was the person's perception of the interaction, that is something we have to accept even if it was not positive and constructive criticism I can take it like a man :-)

HOWEVER....IF the caller has only called you once, a month ago, after an email request that you come on line to take their call ....and you do so.....and the call is twelve minutes long, I for one do not remember this call, or what I said, but I KNOW that I NEVER tell anyone what to do or normally give advice....it is not my place as a reader unless I am asked for it and I will then give an opinion.

And today I  come this site to go to work....and there is scathing feedback that is NOT truthful ranting about no reader being accurate for them EVER on this site.....So I google that caller ( and I never do that normally) and there is GLOWING feedback for other readers about how accurate they were and they were always right....so I wonder why lie in feedback? (Perhaps to get your money back? ) but if you leave the same nasty feedback for two readers one reading after another you will only get your money back from ONE of them and the amount is limited to $25 from what I understand... If you felt the reading was bad, I can accept that, and I would be more than happy to accept bad feedback if its NOT LIES. I won't always be right......and I can accept that I AM human.... but please be honest and truthful in reporting your side of the interaction...

Why are you STILL calling this site if we are all fakes and none of us are psychic? And if you are worried about your money, it is up to you to temper your calling habits, and you have a problem if you keep picking up the phone and expecting your life to be made better simply by virtue of the fact that you are told one thing or another.... YOU are responsible for your life.... You are responsible for your choices, YOU are responsible if your money is tight and yet you still call readers weekly or daily?  and YOU are responsible to be truthful in your life and feedback... None of us can fix your life for you, it is not in the job description....Looking for people to blame all the time will only last so long and in one month, six months, or a year you will be looking for someone else to blame...




Joan


 

Published Thursday, October 08, 2009 11:53 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:25 AM

Amen!Blaming does not work. lying in feedback will change the situation. only self honesty will change the situation.

justaskdrdonna

# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:33 AM

I am not upset about the negative feedback, if she felt i was not accurate for her, that was her right to say so. I am upset that a caller stated that no one on keen has been right for two years for them in my feedback( as if she had called me over a period of time when it was only one call)  and yet there is feedback left for other readers saying how great and accurate they were, that is why I consider the feedback not truthful.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:37 AM

I meant to say lying in feedback will not change the situation. Stating that every psychic on keen has been wrong is lying for sure. I say why keep calling. I also say to a caller that feels this way to ask what they could of done differently. I tell my callers that they must be willing to change in order for the situation to change.

justaskdrdonna

# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:46 AM

We do not have the power to change others but we do have the power to change ourselves....And blaming others will never change your situation as you are then not taking responsibility ( no matter how much we may not like to) for our own actions that led to a situation... I would never want to keep reading for someone who was having financial issues, and yet kept calling...and callers are responsible for keeping their calling in check rather than to keep calling which will not solve the issues we are calling about...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:57 AM

I tell my callers to go on a cash budget system. Once their allotted cash is gone, no more calls until pay day. alot of my callers got away from credit cards and use debit cards. Balance is the key for sure.

justaskdrdonna

# re: Not the Googling kind however...... @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 11:04 AM

Telling people when to call or not to can make them want to call more. So I tell people they can email me with a quick question....or if they need minutes, they can contact me with that and I am more than happy to accommodate them. And if you think there is no one psychic on keen, then do not make the calls!! You cannot blame others for holding your hand to the phone to dial, and learn how to soothe yourself without needing to make that call.

Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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