Readings, Readers and Clients.......
I know that readings are a highly emotional topic for some clients, they may feel betrayed and disapointed by readers and readings. You must understand that there are many reasons misunderstandings can and DO happen in a reading. No amount of negative, nasty, mean spirited feedback will help you get past this feeling of emptiness and may in fact only make you look foolish as a client and possibly cause readers to avoid taking your call if they have seen your name all over keen on other readers pages doing what has become known as *bashing* Expressing how you feel about your interaction can be done in a constructive manner, without mean spirited comments.
When you have unrealistic expectations of your reader, as in you expect the human being at the end of the phone to have all the answers and know everything and that is just not possible ( well I speak for myself and not others) This is not just about what I have seen clients refer to as the *free will cop out* as having the ability to change your mind is not a cop out, I am sure that if all of your choices were taken away from you today, how would that make you feel? I know that I for one would not like that very much.
This is not just about that long awaited and focused upon phone call, email, text etc that you are waiting for not coming on time or at all........this is about the situations that we go through that we should look at as learning experiences and once we focus on what we need to learn from this situation or pattern,(relationship) and what we should not be doing ( manipulating, obsessing, stalking, passive agressively controlling, attention seeking, driving by, not being honest with ourselves or others about this) then we can begin to get past the road blocks that stall, delay or even stop us manifesting the relationships that we deserve.
I know what it feels like to have to have spent thousands on readings and readers and not have that long awaited prediction occur, but calling too often and becoming dependent on readers can in fact work against you. You need to temper yourself and not call too often, do not be dependent on your advisor, do not mark your calender with the magical date that that *contact* will happen ( I do not plan hours,days, weeks or months in advance when I call someone that there is an uncomfortable situation to be resolved with) sometimes it's just easier to avoid, or not deal with the situation and sometimes out of the blue we are ready to tackle that person who we evoked that strong emotional reaction to us and the emotions we evoked in them. Most of the time people become ready to *deal* with the situation and relationship when we (the person waiting ) is not *needing it* so much, Weird is'nt it ???
Joan