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SOME readers do not care to.....

be tested when we are reading for some callers.... But I do believe  it is human nature if you call and you are told something that you do not want to believe or something you  fear will not happen or have not called that reader before, you want what they say to be accurate and so you may test a little, I believe that I cannot control what others do so ask whatever you want to and I will do my best  to answer and if you are testing me....... SO be it :-) I am only one side of our interaction.... and I will do my best for you to seek and find those answers....

 I do not have rules that one must adhere to in order to call me as, I don't want to become known as the Tarot Nazi ( like the Soup Nazi on Seinfeld :-) I understand that a reading is a difficult process if you know what you want to hear and let's face it most of us do when we call, we know what we might LIKE to hear, and that might not always be the case.... I accept that I might deserve bad feedback, it happens, I will try not to take it personally.... but I am human, and I will not complain about it, even if it bothers me.....

What we all need to understand is that some readers demonstrating accuracy for the present time will not mean that they will be accurate in the future for you, and readings are not really meant to control situations or people, you need to know that what comes up is a possibility, a probability and not set in stone. 

Know that most of us will do our best for you so try to call with an open mind :-)

Joan

Published Thursday, October 18, 2007 6:23 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: SOME readers do not care to..... @ Thursday, October 18, 2007 10:17 PM

Well said Joan.  You are always so fair and you make so much sense.  Blessings to you and thank you for sharing.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: SOME readers do not care to..... @ Friday, October 19, 2007 6:43 AM

I believe you are right.  I believe accuracy can be based on how well a reader describes the NOW of a clients life,... with out a test.  What a reading does best is show present day patterns and most likely outcome.  {But of course the future is unproven untill you get there. } All a reading on the NOW does is help avoid patterns that self distruct in the future..  In this case, the future can be controled with wise actions. So totaly, it is unproven.@@@ Even Sylvia Brown. 10 yrs ago, saw the death of missing boys, describing in detail their bodies laying beside a log next to a river.
The boys WERE FOUND ALIVE 10 yrs later. Clients must understand if this can happen to Sylvia Brown, it can happen with any one no matter how they test their reader.

SisterOthelia

# re: SOME readers do not care to..... @ Friday, October 19, 2007 7:14 AM

My point in bringing this issue up and writing about it was the accuracy of present details may not in fact demonstrate the accuracy of the future of that particular reader. It may make them accurate for now but no one can use that to prove any kind of consistent accuracy of future for that reader.  While we may not like to be tested, we have no control over whether someone does test us or not, and human nature being what it is, means that when we interact with people on a one to one basis looking for answers to their most pressing concerns they may ask a question that is testing us and I am not sure that their intent is necessarily negative so much as fearful so stepping back when it happens and not taking it personally might be better rather than being offended and understanding that we have no need to take it personally.
That's my own personal opinion, others may not share that,as is their right,
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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