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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

Sometimes it's easier to.......

just stay rather than take the scary chance to move out and maybe lose your home or finacial status, because it's easier to stay and complain and there is a BIG difference between being unhappy and being unhappy enough to leave.....

 

Sometimes it's easier not to address the issues you have in your relationship to the person because you may not want to hear the answers they come up with, you may need to walk away IF the person you love tells you they can never give you what you want....so by avoiding having the conversation you want to have, you avoid having to make that choice.

Who ever said romance was going to be easy?

It is not and never will be but by being honest with yourself first and your signifigant other that will go a long way to avoid the heartache that prolonging something because you are not ready to hear or see what you need to hear or see or address with conversation or action.........

Joan

Published Tuesday, January 29, 2008 9:51 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Sometimes it's easier to....... @ Tuesday, January 29, 2008 11:41 AM

I think sometimes Joan is the comfortability with complacency and the fear of stepping out of that box as you've said that makes some stay.  
Looking back on my failed marriage, I should have never married him in the first place because he and I truly didn't have the same interests...the passion was there, but there was nothing.  NOT that it didn't hurt tremendously that he cheated, or that he told me our marriage was over through his legal representative, BUT if he hadn't taken those steps, I would have not become the person I am today.  
Thanks for writing this today!

It's never easy doing the right thing.....but down the road you can look back and see exactly when your life took the right turn.  Cheryl

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# re: Sometimes it's easier to....... @ Tuesday, January 29, 2008 11:47 AM

Sometimes you have to take many wrong turns before you make that right one :-)
Joan

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