Sometimes....
you just do not need to hear AGAIN they are coming back or they are not, they are thinking of you or they are not because what does it change in your everyday life?
Sometimes you just have to try hard to let it go. Does it matter why they did this, that or the other?
Or why they did NOT do this, that or the other?
Or why they made one choice over another that did not involve you?
Does it matter that they did not keep their word?
Does it matter that they do not see it from YOUR side only their own?
What matters is that you try to let it go as best as you can, struggle on with the disapointment of another time they did not call, another Christmas alone, new years alone...and maybe birthday and valentines day alone...and keep on moving ahead as best as you can towards hopefully a brand new year where you can make new friends, meet new lovers and not depend on the word of a reader to tell you that phone call you wanted is going to come when it again did not manifest.
Letting it go is the only way....so your are not putting your life on hold for something or someone that may not in the long term be worth it....
Your investment of time effort and energy may not be appreciated by the person anyway.... cut them loose and move on as best you can....
It is only when you can get yourself to the point of being OKAY with them not coming back that things can open up again for you, but getting to that point is very hard to do....but it can be done......
Joan
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