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The Closed off Caller....
It's a new caller and a cold read, the question is general, when the caller is asked is there someone specific you want to ask about ( because you do not want to waste their time and money on doing a general reading and having the person come up anyway) and the caller is defensive because when  you ask for confirmation of what is coming up you do not really get a proper response....

We are not all knowing and all seeing beings at least I am not nor do I claim to be.... If you want to play test the reader then you may not get a good read because you are not truly open to it, being defensive and not answering the questions you are asked because you think the reader is *fishing* is not going to work in your favor, sometimes we need confirmation of a small detail, and it's not fishing but if you have that closed off and testing the reader energy, it's not going to be easy to read for you anyway, and the reading could be off. But YOU played a part in that off kilter energy as a reading is an exchange of energy...

If trying to communicate with the caller is like trying to pull teeth, you are in the way of your own reading and the results may be not as clear as you are seeking....or as clear as we would really like to achieve. Please be aware that you can ruin the exchange of energy, if you are over anxious, closed off, defensive and or angry... But if you want to blame us and not take responsibility that you played a part in it...so be it... but I know I will not always be right,  I do know I try and that is all I can do :-)
Joan

Published Monday, March 22, 2010 10:13 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: The Closed off Caller.... @ Sunday, March 21, 2010 9:18 AM

Joan,
This may help, or not. When I get a caller like this, as you say, totally closed off and then ask, does that make any sense to you... and they say, no--o-  I know in my heart. Bingo. Have hit it on the head.  Sometimes I even have told these types of callers, I do not play games here, and you are wasting MY time, as well as yours by doing so....  
  Be tough!   ~  Dianna   ~ but very sweet and nice....

Dianna Spencer

# re: The Closed off Caller.... @ Sunday, March 21, 2010 9:42 AM

I take what I do seriously and do not want to waste time and or money on the person calling but readings are a two way street, and being closed off will only skew the ability of the reader to connect accurately with you and so if you are looking for accuracy, and truth you play a part in it also as a caller. And thanks Dianna :-) It's kind of like that joke where this guy is praying to win the lottery week after week and after several months, God speaks to him and says *will you at least work with me half way and buy a ticket?*
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: The Closed off Caller.... @ Sunday, March 21, 2010 7:01 PM

Amen to that!

Fortunately, those kinds of callers are getting fewer as we strive to educate on what to prepare before they come to the reading.

I have found this type of caller is usually a new (brand new to the psychic world) client and has been told, by others, not to say anything to see what the psychic 'knows'. And you are right, blocks us trying to get through.

Dianna

Dianna Spencer

# re: The Closed off Caller.... @ Sunday, March 21, 2010 7:44 PM

The caller needs to not only be open to the reading but the information that comes up even if it is not what the person wanted to hear. Not to mention that the situation usually did not occur over night it happened over time and it cannot and will not be fixed overnight. Drama and threats will not fix it especially when the words mean nothing if not followed up on. And both parties played a part in creating the issue that is now causing a problem. It ain't easy reading for people, but it is a gift and a pleasure when you reach people....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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