The Way I see it......
Often times people want to know *WHEN* are they going to meet someone and start a relationship....
And it reminds me of the joke that I was told about a man who prayed to God to win the lottery, daily he prayed for it, and FINALLY God spoke to him and said, *IF you want to win the lottery, at LEAST meet me halfway and BUY a ticket!!!*
Often when I ask the person what they are doing to increase their chances to meet others, they respond that they never get out.... HOW can I fix that for you if you won't even try? If you want to meet someone then get out there as best you can and mingle, go to hardware stores...go to a football game, go to church, take a class, even one at a hardware store, those are FREE! GET out there and at least meet God half way and make an effort... Cause he/she ain't gonna parachute onto your lawn....
Ask ALL and ANY of your friends IF they know any single men/women that they could set you up with on a casual date or meet for coffee... Network from your job or college and get yourself OUT there... Network with your co-workers, network with your friends....
Some people have luck on line meeting people ( that does NOT mean you should turn into a stalker once you have had ONE date with someone ) so try that avenue if that appeals to you...there are MANY sites Match.com, Plenty of Fish.com, eharmony, to name a few.
I know it's not easy to meet people, but not trying will not increase your chances and your reader does not have a magic wand to fix things for you if you are not willing to at least try to get yourself out there even if it is Scary!!!
IF you truly want to get out of the rut and meet new people at least be PRO-ACTIVE in that process and try to play a role to facilitate it instead of asking when it will happen, perhaps you will be so busy, you will forget about that and NOT focus on what you do not have ( the relationship) and it is usually THEN that the person appears out of nowhere and into your life..... (and NO most likely it will not be by parachuting onto your lawn) although I am sure that may have occurred but I don't know anyone that happened to :-)
Joan