The worth of a Reader.......
What do you want in a reading?
Do you want honesty?
Do you want accuracy?
Do you want to just hear what YOU want to hear?
Are you open to the changes that YOU might have to make in order to have that prediction come true?
Because if you call and are only open to hearing what YOU want and not what YOU might have to DO or CHANGE in order to create and manifest the future you want then you could be sabotaging YOUR OWN LIFE...your own relationships. In any situation there is never one person completely at fault.....
Take responsibility for YOUR part when you call........ there is NO point in just calling only to hear that ALL is well when YOU are in your own way...
When YOU were doing all the work, all the calling, investing ALL of the effort and energy and now you want them to change? Did you tell them what you needed? Are you WILLING to give the person a chance to see if they can provide and meet with your needs?
When you are the one who does the work in getting a person back after each fight, do YOU not realize that they can and will expect YOU to KEEP doing that???? And YOU caused that by tacitly accepting the behavior and doing all the work.
And IF you operate within fear and keep doing the work, that WILL be expected of you....and no matter what YOU say, your actions are speaking for you as MEN listen to actions and women listen to words......
It ain't easy.....to hold back and ALLOW the other the time and space for another to step up to the plate...... but it IS necessary to do so as re-entering a relationship from a perspective of compromise will only come back to bite you when the chips are down. Like I always say being away from the person is the easy part, it's the re-entry period that is hard work sort of like the re-entry period of an astronaut :-) HAS to be done right or it will NOT work.... Forgoing instant gratification for long term gain will always work in your favor even if you cannot see that in the short term.....
Joan
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