Things we SHOULD remember but don't sometimes......
Others do not always have OUR script..... as in people will not always see things the same way we do, and or deal with it the same way we would. So if possible we should remember that when a person is NOT calling, not responding to our calls, texts and or emails. They are telling us something ( we may NOT want to hear it ) and we SHOULD leave it alone. IF we PUSH someone they may respond NEGATIVELY.
Best to leave things alone so that the person can deal in their own way and in their own time frames...which we need to remember may NOT be ours.... But IF we allow things alone, not push, not call and give the other person time and space, THEN things can come to us the way they were meant to....
I know all of this is hard to deal with, hard to wait, harder if we have called and gotten a negative response, but we cannot FORCE another to deal with us if they are not ready to...
joan
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