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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

Tips on Readings......
How to get the most from your readings.
Ask the question ONCE: Asking over and over will not give a different answer and it shows that you are not truly open to what comes up, and being truly open to what comes up makes for a better reading experience for both you and the reader.
Have Realistic Expectations: Remember this is not an exact science, it just does not work that way.
Timing: I do not personally plan every moment of every day. Most people do not. And while timing may be a sensitive issue to many (those waiting for a call) (those waiting for a lover to *Step Up*) etc... Remember we may have played a part in creating the issue that has caused the call NOT to happen (sometimes NOT!) Did we tell our lover *Don't call me* Did we put up with being a *booty Call* and not speak up to say what we want (a relationship)...
Do not be reactive: Try to listen to what is being said, as while it may not make sense at the time you are hearing it, it will make sense later. At least try not to be reactive.....
Know that things take time: Calling every day will NOT change things, situations and pattern that have been created over time will not change overnight. Calling too often will not make for a better reading, it may in fact effect the quality of the reading....In fact getting readings every day from one or several readers may increase frantic energy, and that increase alone can decrease the accuracy of the prediction and over focus on an issue or person decreases the likelihood of the prediction happening at all.
Know we cannot change others:
If we want others to respect our choices, then at least try to respect the choices of others. Just because someone does not want to be in a relationship with us now, does not mean they never will. Perhaps what you want is not so far apart that it cannot be compromised upon by both to continue?
Timing is EVERYTHING: The right time for YOU, may not be the right time for others. The universe can and will take care of things, it is not necessary for us to control everyone and everything as that NEVER works. Have your reading, sit back, RELAX and allow the universe to do it's job.... Pushing either passively or aggressively will never work either....
Joan




Published Wednesday, November 12, 2008 8:59 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Tips on Readings...... @ Wednesday, November 12, 2008 11:07 AM

Very nice post.  Thanks.  I've been at this so long that when a Keen caller says, "What do you pick up around love?  Anything?" I just ask, "How long has it been since he called?"  I sometimes wonder if the boyfriend was driven away by that same withholding quality.

Lady Rose 2001

# re: Tips on Readings...... @ Wednesday, November 12, 2008 11:29 AM

Some callers want to test the reader and they do not ask the specific questions they might want to. They may hold unrealistic expectations of the reader on being exact on timing when it is not and never will be an exact science. There are many that are fearful and controlling of the relationship and that can drive someone away if you are not willing to take that chance. The caller themselves may hold much of the answers as they may have created the problems that are causing the issues in the long term. There are so many factors that affect the readings ability to get to the root of the issues causing the caller to seek a reading or consultation...
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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