We forget.....
That when we call for a reading the people doing the readings do not have the power of choice in our own lives that we have, we are calling them so they should be all knowing beings and that is sooooooo not the case. Do not forget the power that we have and always will in our lives and readings are only a glimpse of possibilities and probabilities.....and NEVER etched in stone.....
Like the old joke goes a man asks God to help him win the lottery and after a week of not winning when he asks again, God tells him that he has to work with him and he at least has to buy a ticket....we both have major parts in any reading or prediction. And not that even playing that part guarantees the outcome... in life there are no guarantees...... sorry to have to break that news to you.....
Would we like it if........ everything was set in stone, and we could not change our mind? Do we want the choice to date someone or not? Do other people have that same choice? Does it hurt when someone we want so much does not appear to want us ? But surely we have done that to others? So don't take is so personally and remember when we were the one choosing not to date that person we were just not that into.....that works both ways....
And if we are being honest with ourselves we would not be SO hung up on the *relationship*. If we were honest with ourselves about what we really wanted...then we would not be calling every day ( WAY TOO OFTEN) about the man/woman, where they are and what they are doing...... we would be relaxed about it and allowing it to happen rather than manipulating and controlling it, because that will never work. The only way we can have a proper relationship is honesy with ourselves first and honesty with the other person for starters. And it grows from that small starting point....
What it grows into depends on our relationship with ourselves first... that is the most important relationship of all....
Don't ever forget the power you have and don't forget to exercise that control....
Stop me rambling now :-)
Joan