What I learned .....
is that there is nothing to be gained in asking what a person is thinking
about you daily or even weekly when no action has taken place because someone
thinking does not necessarily translate to action........so focusing on what a
person is feeling means nothing without action. And it CAN cause us not to LIVE in the moment as when we are WAITING we are NOT living, and that is NEVER good.
And there is nothing to be gained in continuing to contact someone when they
have not responded....as their non response IS a response so trying again and
again will not work and in fact may delay or even stop the action towards you.
IF someone wants to be in contact with you, the WILL be in contact with you.
There is nothing to be gained in calling for readings too often, it raises
the energetic level which can lead to inaction all around when there is over
focus on a situation.
There is nothing to be gained by playing the blame game, that job or partner is not going to land on your lawn, and you have to be open and work towards things as opposed to blaming others for it not happening. You have to keep on working on things, they do not just happen. And you also have to take responsibility for why a situation did work out, there is always two sides and everyone plays a part..
There is nothing to be gained in impatience, as that also raises the
energetic level of a situation and can delay or stop action, who wants to be
energetically tied to a person who obsesses? That feels very uncomfortable and
even if someone does not understand what is causing them to feel uncomfortable,
but they will pull away from it when it does not feel good.
There is nothing to be gained in focusing on the time
frames as timing is not an exact science nor is predictive reading. All
contain many variables...sometimes it is us that causes delays or
sometimes it is another who causes the delay.....and it may be necessary to allow time for a prediction to manifest, and the over focus on the timing, can cause things to be pushed back.
There is nothing to be gained in thinking that free will is a cop out as you
yourself have the power to use your own free will, why should others not have
that same power? I want to be able to change my mind, I want to have the power
to choose one thing over another or one person or situation over another, why
should others not enjoy that same thing?
As they say in Ireland.........what's for you, won't pass you by...... even
if it looks like it for periods of time.....
Joan