When getting a Reading....
When one is getting a reading, one should at least give the person reading a chance to finish their sentence, and try not to dismiss what comes up even if it does not look like it at the time... I cannot say how many times I say something only to have the client respond with * That would never happen* only to have them email me back and say that very thing did happen. God knows I won't be right all the time, nor could I expect myself to be and I hope you don't have those kinds of high expectations of me either, that's setting the bar too high for me but I will do the best I can for you every time I read for you.
Try not to have a set thing in your head as to what could or should come up because readings ( no matter the method divination) are a cross between what you need to know and are allowed to know and no matter the question there might not be an answer for that question yet available. It might be boring if we knew everything don't you think? You do need to understand that...
One should be honest with oneself as if you are not that leads to frustration with the reader and oneself if one is not aware of what it is that you do really want or expect in the situation. Know that you play an important role and try not to shoot the messenger....
Readings can be powerful if used the right way so just relax and be open...that's all you need to do :- )