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Boundaries

How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

Why is it that........

no one is honest with themselves about what they want in a relationship?

They usually say, I just want........... But really...

IF you want to just see the person several times a week.... that IS a relationship..

IF you want to just have them see YOU exclusively.... that IS a relationship...

IF you want more than they can give, you need to accept that does not mean they can never give it to you, they may not be able to give it to you on your terms or time frames.... that does not mean it never will be....

IF you think you cannot let go because you do not have *closure* that is YOUR choice and you need to understand that if you tell yourself something you are making that choice NOT to let go.... and you cannot force someone to give you that closure..... personally I don't want to hear that my ass was too big, or I was lousy in bed because I forced someone to give me my *closure*....

It's a good start to be honest with ourselves.....before we start making excuses as to what you just want or not being able to let something or someone go.... and we need to remember those are our choices.....

joan

 

 

 

Published Wednesday, August 22, 2007 7:15 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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