Ask A Witch: Catarina in Starrkirch, Switzerland
Dear Alexandra
I'm a Taurus woman (18th of May, 1965 at 18:05 in Sao Paulo, Brazil) married with a Pisces man (27th of February, 1963 at 06:40 in Sao Paulo, Brazil) for 15 years now, but we've been together for 21 years now. The past 10th of August, he told me that he wanted a divorce because he wanted to keep traveling (he is an international sales manager, and I am a software engineer), also because there were "a lot of differences" between us (after 21 years he noted that!) and he didn't have any time for me any more.
I could not believe that and I started searching for evidence of another woman in his life, which I found. My husband is the kind of person that wants perfection in everything, and he is not happy with anything. He is very instable and has changed his job many times and he cheated on me once 14 years ago. That time he left me with our daughter to live with the woman with his affair. But things were not as good as he thought, and he came back three years later after being cheated and losing a lot of money. This time, he is having a affair with his boss' sister, who also works in the same company as a manager. He has been having this affair since January. As he is quite ambitious, I think he is also expecting a promotion and a percentage in the company. My question is: Is my husband going to come back to me again and when?
Catarina in Starrkirch, Switzerland
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Dear Catarina,
Without performing a reading, I can't suggest a time-line, but from what you've told me it sounds like he may not know what he wants at all. If he does come back to you, his past history proves that it may not be permanent. In similar situations to yours I have seen the man come back repeatedly, but for short periods. My suggestion for this situation is that you try not to rely on him for monogamy and don't get your hopes up so high that you can't consider what you truly want and need and what other options you may have. Please take proper precautions with him and use condoms as you would with anyone who has multiple partners. Couples counseling may help if he comes back wanting to save the relationship and you still want to consider that option too.
Light!
Alexandra
17 Dec 2002
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