Ask A Witch: Dragon Wolf in Dexter, MO
Dear Alexandra,
Maybe I'm a fool; I may be not just asking an opinion here. I am involved with another Wiccan with who has multiple personalities and is bipolar (no, I have none of these problems). She says she loves me and I really don't doubt that she does and I do love her. The problem is is that she is still in love with two of her past boyfriends and still hangs on to them. I really feel like I'm second best at the best and, well, caught in something destructive at the worst! But then again, maybe I'm reading to much into this and just need to give it time. What do you think?
Dragon Wolf in Dexter, MO
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Dear DW,
I hope that she is getting help from a professional so that she can manage her illnesses. As for you, you have noticed that you are lacking something that you need in a relationship. And she should be no exception, even if it is resulting from a disability rather than disinterest. Discuss this with her and tell her that you need her to not be with her past boyfriends. If she cannot agree to that then you will have to leave her to pursue what you need to be happy.
Light!
Alexandra
17 Dec 2002
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