Ask A Witch: Janssen in Lansing, MI
Dear Alexandra,
I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last two months. He explained his "sort of" boyfriend may come back from another country, but he has feelings for us both. I'm afraid his feelings may be stronger for the other guy, and I'm afraid he'll come back. If he does, it'll be at the end of the month. Do you know what will happen or any advice for me? Thanks for you help.
Janssen in Lansing, MI
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Dear Janssen,
If you value monogamy and you're afraid that you're playing second fiddle to this guy in another country, then this problem is indicative of a greater problem in the relationship. If your current boyfriend is shopping around, wherever he may be looking, you should probably talk to him about what sort of a commitment you expect rather than worrying about if and when it will be broken.
Light!
Alexandra
17 Dec 2002
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