Ask A Witch: Not Over Him in Sacremento, CA
Dear Alexandra,
I have two questions that I would like answered, if it pleases you. One is that I'm just starting out with witchcraft and was referred to this site and I wanted to know what help I could get from you. The second is that I just broke up with my boyfriend, on Valentine's day to make it worse, and I wanted to know how to get him out of my head. I have tried a lot of things already, looking at other guys, remembering him, taking advice from my friends just made it worse. what can I do?
Please help,
Not Over Him in Sacremento, CA
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Dear NOH,
I'm not qualified to teach Wicca, and you did not elaborate on your form of witchcraft, but I will be happy to attempt to answer any specific questions that you may have along your journey. I will be here; just ask me. As for your ex-boyfriend, it will take time to get him out of your head. It has only been a couple of weeks, of course you're going to not be over him yet! But time does heal all wounds, and you will eventually learn how to be your own person again. Don't you worry about that. You might want to do a simple concentration exercise such as cutting up a picture of the two of you, telling his half of the picture "I am over you. I wish you no harm, but I want to move on now" and burying it. Wipe the other half of the picture with you in it with water saying, "I am now clean and ready to move on". Imagine being free of thoughts of your ex-boyfriend, then keep it under your bed until you are.
Light!
Alexandra
01 Mar 2003
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