Ask A Witch: Wandering Eye in Denver, CO
Dear Alexandra,
I am in a relationship. I guess a semi-serious one. I have been having second thoughts though. I want to ask you a question. If I care so much for this guy I am with, is it natural to think about another guy? What should I do if not? I care for this guy that I am with, so how do I get these feelings to go away?
Yours,
Wandering Eye in Denver, CO
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Dear WE,
It's natural to think about another guy even if you are in a happy relationship. If you value monogamy, it is your job to not act on those thoughts and feelings! You know you're in trouble if you find yourself falling in love with this new guy. You might want to try spending more quality time with your current boyfriend and renewing your love for each other. If it calls for drastic measures you may want to also cut yourself off from the new guy if you are afraid something will happen. In most aspects of life, I find that doubt can be helpful. It either leads you back to your faith stronger than ever, or it helps you understand something better.
Light!
Alexandra
11 Mar 2003
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