Top 3 Tips on Talking With Ghosts
Often I have clients who come to me sensing a presence around them, or desperately wanting to have personal communication with a deceased loved one. Of course, I can and do assist, but most would like to carry on the relationship without me as an intermediary, and I don't blame them! So, today, I'd like to include the top three tips that I give to those who wish to initiate communication with their friendly neighbourhood ghost!
- Speak aloud to the presence and let him or her know that it is okay to communicate with you. When I speak with ghosts, the number one reason that they choose not to contact their beloved living is that they're afraid you'll check yourself into a mental institution, or that they will be a bother or will hinder your grieving process.
- Ask and prepare to meet with the ghost in your dreams. This would be the recommended place for a layperson to develop his or her subconscious connection with the mighty dead, in my opinion. It allows a safe and naturally limiting way to interact and process the emotions that may be involved.
- Be patient. It could be that your loved-one knows best, and that this isn't the right time to communicate. It could be that your loved one has more important business. Though there are practices that force ghosts to do things, I do not subscribe to those. Some ghosts only choose to communicate with certain people, so talk with other loved ones of the deceased, as well as your favourite professional medium, of course, if all else fails!