What You Need To Hear
Today's question came to me from Twitter, when a user asked me the following:
@earthshod so I'm interested in your services but I don't want to be told I'm wrong. Lol. Is that not gonna work out?
My reply to her on Twitter was that, "readings aren't for everyone! If you're already confident with your decisions, it isn't necessary! I always leave choices though!" But this is a topic that can be addressed with more than 140 characters!
On some level, we all want to be told what we want to hear. But in my personal desires, I want that to be the truth. I know that some would-be clients don't care whether or not it is the truth! Many of them just want somebody in some spiritual authority to assure them that "it's all going to be okay." Some want more than that. They want the picture-perfect situation to either fall into their lap or they want to manifest it through hard work no matter how unlikely the circumstances may be.
There are proper ways to address those needs in a reading, but there are wrong ways as well. Understand that the future is written in sand, not stone, and that you are in charge of your own destiny. If you've already made your choices and charted out your course of action, now many not be the time for a reading. But, if you'd like a little help along the way...
- DON'T ask, "I he coming back to me?" If you already want him back no matter what.
- DO ask, "Even though I know it is unlikely, what actions best increase my chances of making the relationship work?"