Life, Love, Career and the Bumps and Bruises that Come with it
I don't blog very often and when I do I hope it is worth reading... I am for the most part a very private person. But I always remain aware of everyone I have met or even those I am destined to meet. So, I will first start off by apologizing for my lack of availability these past few months. As with many others I have been picking up the pieces and rebuilding my life. This year has been fantastastic and very traumatic all at once. Endings, beginnings and a fresh coat of paint--LOL
So many of us have been knocked out of our comfort zone to wonder WHY?????? Well hell, that in itself can drive you pretty bonkers -- a lot of times there is no true understandable reason why espescially when you are dealing with a stubborn jackass--be it your boss, a family member, a friend or your significant other. Truth is we all think differently and we act differently when stressed, under pressure or emotional.. Yes, we would not do it that way nor would we have treated them like that-- But alas my dear friend WE ARE NOT THEM... I have come to know that even when we know why it still makes no sense, because it is/was not the way we would do it. So, stop beating your brain wondering why others act or react the way they do and focus on you, your happiness, your desires, your actions and words.
We have been through hell and back thus far this year and we survived it ..... Through the bills, the pain, the hurt, the lost job, misplaced(lost) love...We survived it all and now is the time to stand up and shout it out loud....Because lets face it, it has been hell and a good shout always helps clear the mind. Declare your independance, remake your world, take back your control and your happiness. You are the one who matters and when all is said and done you are the one who has the ability to control today and the days to come... Try not to become to overwhelmed with the past and the pain of yesterday but instead use the knowledge of it to create a better tomorrow..
I am here if and when you need me
Love To You,
Brenda