Persecution of one individual by others has always been a problem. If it happens at school we call it bullying; in the workplace it’s harassment; and in a “love” relationship it’s stalking. But what has changed is that with the advent of new technologies persecution follows people into their own homes via cell phones and computers.

 

The law has yet to catch up with the new generation of persecutors. We have yet to develop effective strategies to deal with it. Children are often victimized right under their parents’ noses without them even being aware of it. It has even got to the point where physical attacks are being filmed to post on internet websites.

 

As parents or grandparents we need to make ourselves aware of the problems caused by new technologies, and educate ourselves in ways to support vulnerable youngsters who are being targeted. Schools often wash their hands of responsibility because technically it happens outside the school gates. We need to lobby to encourage schools to own some responsibility in dealing with essentially school based bullying.

 

In the workplace, we need to support moves towards responsible computer use. We need to encourage politicians to come up to speed with legislation to target cyber bullies, stalkers and abusers. We need to project the message that society will not tolerate abuse in any shape or form.

 

Sadly, many of those who use such tactics are females. Men are traditionally more physical, where women wage war with nasty words. We need to remember this:

 

            “Sticks and stones may break my bones

            But names will break my heart.”