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I agree with you on this.  Many times Spirit may give you something that you cannot understand.  So you have to ask the caller a question, and then you can piece the information together.

I would much rather be asked for some clarification...it makes for a much better reading!

Very true.  There are times that a reading makes little sense to the one doing the reading, but by asking questions, it soon becomes clear that the caller knows exactly what it means.  Also, I agree with you that with a new caller it's important to know whether a true connection is being made, hence the questions.

Occasionally I get a caller where I'm picking up on someone close to them rather than the caller.  It's rare and a little eerie when it happens.  It just means that the caller is concentrating on that person rather than the reason they called.  Questions allow me to redirect the energy back to the caller.

I think the people who complain about qustions are the ones who really don't understand how we work and have a misconception that we can turn our abilities on and off instantly and have unlimited, undying "second sight" so therefore only need to hear the caller's voice and know what they are thinking.

Nice one Faith, I like to ask questions because sometimes what I pick up just dosn't make sense, sometimes I get something that seems to be really pressing in but the client hasn't focused on, sometimes I will get something just for clarification that I have a connection. Sometimes by asking the client questions it helps them see things from a different perspective and they in fact end up getting much more from the reading.

I ask questions because I need clarification about the message I am receiving for them.  Sometimes I am the recipient of more than one message streaming in while I am looking at the person's aura and I am looking for holes that need repaired, or I am searching for those that are trying to communicate with them etc.  I sometimes get different spirits that come through and I don't have a clue how they fit in with the spirits family etc.  They don't always give you clear, forthright messages either.  For example:  While reading for another this week a spirit of a dark haired lady came through telling me "she is not to leave the house this week".   Well I tried to tell my client to hold a minute and I asked her "do you know of someone named Annie who have crossed over and has dark hair"?  The client said no I don't think so.  Then I had to dismiss the other spirit from my presence and go back to reading for my client thinking well I wonder what that was about.  Later in the day the same client calls me back just frantic.  She tells me that while she was downtown shopping her automobile was stolen out of the parking lot and a lot of important information was in the glove box in the car.  She also said...you know that person Annie you asked me about?  I said yes I remember...well it seems that this spirit was my clients Aunt and she did not know that last year she had crossed over for no one had notified her.  

So questions are important and they are necessary and sometimes they don't make total sense but sometimes they do provide you important information in return.  So don't be angry if your psychic asks you some questions for probably they just need some clarification about what they are seeing or hearing so it will make sense to both of you.  Being a channel for those on the other side sometimes is extremely difficult.  We do not always understand the message ourselves.

Rosie

This thread is wonderful - it is almost a "must read" for callers! Thanks for all your contributions!
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Faith

Really good blog. I find most of my past callers a blessing in understanding me this way. I have to ask questions to ensure I am picking up the correct connection.  I don't do general readings well and have noted that on my site but I do specifics quite well. One of my fav callers asks me questions like a shotgun..wears me out hehhe. So I figure I can ask some as well.

Very very good topic!  I connect with those who will 'allow' me to.  When I am fired at (this is very uncomfortable, I just sort begin to shut down and stuggle with this 'energy' instead of just stating " I appreciate your call but we are not connecting despite my best efforts"  Hard for me to do hoping that something will, I don't know, melt in their heart, but no folks.

Forget it.  Can't help 'em.  They won't let "allow" you.  

Thanks, great post.

Wonderful blog as usual Faith!