I get lots of calls from women seeking new relationships. Most of these women have been in bad relationships previously, and are very clear about the attributes they are seeking in a new partner. They can talk at great length about the qualities their new man will have and what he will bring to the relationship. They make it sound like Heaven on Earth.

 

What they are silent about is what they have to offer. They know what they want to “buy” but don’t have much to say about what they have to “sell.” They are seeing everything through their own eyes with little understanding about what a man might want.

 

Sorry gals, but it is always women who do this! I rarely receive calls from males rattling off their demands. If you are single and looking, and you haven’t given any thought to what men seek in prospective partners, then maybe that’s the reason you are still single!

 

Here’s my advice – find out!

 

Yes, that’s blunt, but as the saying goes: “If you always do what you always did, you’ll always get what you always got.”

 

Happy hunting!