Are We Always Right? Advisors~ Dr's~ Lawyers~ Parents~ Therapist~
We are all human and human has error~ not everyone in this world will be 100%. If you are One that is out there saying you are than you are gladly mistaken. I stink with timing~ I tell people when they phone I will give an estimate. If you are walking through life relying on everyones words as if they are Gods words~ You are in for a awakening. I say this with kindness as words sometimes may appear to be harsh. No one I mean no one is 100% on anything. That means in relationships~ of all kinds as well. As a parent am I always right~ No! I make mistakes that is how I learn through them in hopes not to repeat them. Dr's make wrong diagnosis sometimes~ wrong meds~ Lawyers they sometimes think one way and find out their ideals have not been right~ Therapist may feel they see what is the truth for you and find out that has not been the way it has been at all~and you find another that may fit your needs better~We are never 100%~ I think we all need to understand that when we look for anothers insight that we have to also be our own insighter as well~When do we as people take responsibility for our own? So easy to blame another for things not being 100% but~ do we know that maybe up the road a bit that we may see a part to that truth~ No one knows for sure~ we use our best judgement~ we use our best knowledge~ in every word there lys a lesson of growth to some degree. How many times have Drs told someone that they had an illness and they ran more tests to find out that it really was something else.. We all play our role~ we all do what is right at that time~ No one knows for sure what the true ending will be~ Only God~ I know when I go to my Dr this is just an (.ie I use my judgement as well. I do not put a 100% into everything that he is saying. I was told I had fibromyalgia~ I do not. Just an example. That goes with anything in life~ You have to use your own judgement~ Your own gut feelings as well~ I have gone to advisors have they all been 100% for me, no Am I mad and irriate? Do I blame and say what a waste of money and time, No for that what is what was given for me at that time for what ever reason I needed that..Does that mean they were wrong~ Does that mean that they intentionally set me up for a lie? No, That was what I needed to hear at that time and Yes the old Will thing~ People head in different ways every min of every day. I may start out to mop the floor and just go and wash the bathroom~ I made a different way for myself. Just in a flip of a dime. Now if someone was reading me they may say your going to wash your floor yes at that time I was and I made that flip in an minute not too. That is life always flipping into another setting.
Our thoughts are the same as well~ Larry he loves you never sways from that~ although flipped his mind to date Pam just to see if what he feels for you is really true...Does that mean he is gone~ Only if you beleive he is~ Only is you do not trust he loves you in his heart. Whatever you hang onto turns into reality.. What you see is not always what the truth really is underneath. You have to have faith~ You have to have trust~ You have to really let go of what you think should happen vs what will eventually will evolve.
Life is not easy~ and lots of lessons~ growth~ for our own good...Even when it stinks~ at the time.. I am human I hurt~ I feel ~ I understand~ So you are never alone~ We all go through things that may not make sense at the time~ But again no one is 100% take what you are needed to take at the time and use it wisely. Learning to trust is the biggest lesson we will ever learn...This is not to offend anyone or take away from anyone just a little tidbit I feel that I would like to share on my own behalf.
I hope that today you get alittle something out of what I am exressing to you with truth and love...
Hugs,
Donna