Do you stand out in a crowd or are you standing up?
Funny question huh? Are you one that is found in every situation that has drama around it. Are you one that has to voice their opinion every chance you get? Always looking for a debate or challenge to motivate you, move energy around for you. If you see a crowd are you one that cannot refrain from joining in and usually carries something "negative" to add to the mix? I ask these question for: I have been noticing behaviors of those around me. For some reason there is alot of harshness instead of "pick me up" energy. Do you stand up with a level head or a hot head? Be aware of those triggers within you that seem to stir up hostility, because hostility breathes hostility when offered out. Why send plant dooms day when you really do not need too. As I have been clearly saying for weeks, there are alot of painful people coming more and more out of their closets and they just do not know how to deal with their pain. If we are people to help them decipher what is theirs and what is not how can you JUDGE all the time hurting souls??? You that judges may find yourself always pointing that finger back at you. Vicious cycle and the only way to not engage in such tedious dramas is not look at it so linear. You need to look at the bigger grander pictures. No one is out to get you or hurt you on purpose. Just not the case. How can a person be a great advisor if they are demanding their own expectations on clients. You either go with the flow and not get so caught the other persons pain.
It's like this someone that drinks and they call up someone to talk and they start yelling and saying obscenities, you know they have a problem, you know that they do not mean it and it is not directed truly at you. You hang up when you feel you have had enough and cannot get through to the person. End of story. You take your own power back and not take it personal. You know that they are drowning in their own misery. You tried to listen and help but- you could not go any further. Not everyone will like you not everyone will respect you, not everyone is suppose to, it would be nice but it is very unrealistic.
Standing up for things you can make a difference in is great!!! Standing up and showing how to shine your light is simply marvelous. Standing up without spreading negative fire is essential. You do not need to pound pavements with anger and hostility or woo is me syndrome. Grab your power hold it close and ignite others with true potentials. Give out solid love without hanging on to old baggage. You do not need to bark so loud to make a difference in the lives of others. Or push your insecurites on anyone else to feel not alone. Take responsibility for who you are and make some changes to lighten your load. No need to speak with a fork tongue all the time. Learn to love thy neighbor and not judge so much for there is always a plan set for us that we do not see as of yet. Why things really happen ask yourself ? God knows better than we do.
Hugs,
Donna