*Making the right move*
It does not matter how many times we rethink a situation over and over trying to come up with the right(best) answer on how to make the next step. We run into many obstacles that seem to get in our way. Unfortunately, we are not always given the directions from our guidance to a tee. We are suppose to (feel) with our gut our heart right smack in the core. I like metaphors and sceniros because they can give a much easier concept to what someone is speaking.
You may love your job, but you feel as if you are in a dead end and you need that cash flow to survive but- you are miserable every day you go there. You feel unappreciated and not taking seriously enough. You know you want to change something, a new job, a new career, something but- you feel lost and stuck. And boy oh boy that makes one feel as if they are dreading there every day interaction. Your soul is not happy, it wants more and it is forcing you to start reevaluating what makes your heart sing. What makes you want to come alive and dance inside. Yes, we all need money to make it through and we need to have a consistant but- you also have to be happy. You have to have pride in what you are doing. You have to be able to put every effort into what you are doing. If you find yourself feeling unglued, look at why first? Is there anything at all you can do to make it pleasurable? If you do all these things and still feel as if you have had it! Than the time has come to take a risk into the unknown~ trust your gut(feelings) that you need to start making something change. Look into a new output for you. No one has to stay where they feel unhappy and the joy is taken out of them. You have the right to have all of that and more. If your doing things that make you dread it every day~ start asking yourself what makes me happy? What gives me purpose? What really is exciting to me and makes me feel purposeful?
Many people will complain and complain but not do anything about it. They will say I have had it, or I cannot do this anymore, but yet they do not come into the heart to find a solution to open new doors. Take that chance your put here on this earth to be happy and filled with joy and surrounded by good people. Not to live a life of hardship and pain. Your change in attitude alone is the first step into making new ideas happen. Nothing is to big for you to do or be apart of,. Your dreams are your realities when you believe in them enough.
Sometimes it just takes a mere second to change a whole new situation, sometimes we need to sacrafice a bit more, a little longer to pull out of the mindset that is all it is. Your mind keeping you in the I am not good enough mode, or I am not able to see that dream mode. I am going to speak of God here he is here for us to make our dreams come true. We have to sometimes endure a few "tests" so to speak.. Not really test persay but- when we over come our mindsets we free those moments of lapses. The one that over rides us to be within walls of doom and gloom. Your not to old, or to ugly, or to unaccomplished , or to uneducated, or to anything you set your heart too. Your heart leads the way not the mind. When you feel through that heart you connect to the truth of who you really are deep inside.
Your relationship whether it be with a man or woman can and will be accomplished if you believe that you have a right to this situation. People split up and fall apart do to lack of communication, lack of understanding, lack of feeling able to provide what someone else needs. You get scared they become confused, you than in return become needy overly needy. Than the relationship starts to delve into unhealthyness. When you so desperately need someone to the point of losing yourself, that is a sign of What is lacking within you that you are trying to fill with them. That is an awful amount of dependency for anyone to cope with. Have a free relationship with people communicating and excepting who the person is. I am not where saying if the person is not being faithful or is abusive stay put and end of story. I am saying if things have come to that extent than someone has to let go of the wheel. Let go and allow the situation to work itself out. Love is very powerful and can overcome the most desperate situations. When 2 people get on the same page than you have the real story beginning to take form. You start to roll with good punches and you find your love successful. You cannot carry old baggage into a new dream, you have to sever some hard densities. Takes courage and diligence to do so. Do you live in a marriage or relationship that everyone is just getting by? That truly the happiness is gone and you do not know how to regain the best parts? Why have someone or yourself take the joy out of you?
Br truthful and real and but your intentions to have what you so desire. Getting by is just not enough when we are suppose to be great! You cannot fake your way through life it catches up with you sooner than later and than you have to face the (causes) the pieces that are either done and need to go or better yet you need to start a new phase of you.
Hugs as always,
Donna