What happens when they do not want us, than what?
You have just discovered that he/she does not want to be with you anymore. You are mad and confused and most of all hurt. You try very hard to take this rejection and work through it. We do not own anyone they can come and go when ever they want, that is the truth. We have no guarantee's that any partner will stay. I know through out the years of working through hard places with people wanting relationships to work out. For the other person to come back and they don't. Not every relationship has another opportunity to come full circle.
We the wounded souls need to find our power after the mourning and pain. WE have to find the way again to live. To breathe to go on to the next day. That takes time and we do not have to be in any hurry to get healed. We can take our time to observe from the outside of the situation after the anger/pain dies down.
People come into our life for a reason and season sometimes, and we have to really understand that. Not everyone works out sometimes the role that the other person is playing is right in alignment with our souls purpose as well. Yes, no one says that it does not hurt like hell. But - when you understand the experiences that which you witnessed and were apart of the world becomes alive again with you. You will use your tools now to set your standards higher and maybe what you were really looking for was never really there to begin with.
Relationships are evolving........now to a much deeper meaning than just the "I love you" it is a connection from your heart centers. Not just that feel good moments. The connection you will gain will be a knowing without second guessing anything at all. And if you have not gotten that yet, be ready for we are at a time of great love with ourselves and others to evolve with us and we will now be able to understand relationships. If you have a dynamic to your relationship..like an obstacle or someone is not being true on some level you will evolve out of that space sooner or later. Nothing will stay that has not been done with truth. Something sacred lasts when it is nutured with everything your soul intends it to be. Making choices based out of fear causes erruptions eventually. Check your own inner intentions and faith and use good judgement with self when it comes to making a sacred union.
Sometimes we are looking on the outside instead of within and that is where we get lost and confused. We have to know we will be okay without anyone else first. Being needy is an attachment and that is another whole story in itself.....lol
Hugs,
Donna