What's the Big Deal ?
I am inspired to write from looking at every angle of life as a whole, to see what really matters. I do not have "energy_ time_space_or reason to have to make everyone happy all the time it is impossible and not my job. No one person will always be happy with everything or everyone all the time. We are working towards not letting everything/everyone in our lives affect us on levels that is out of our control.
We are here on this little earth to do our own existance and to cycle. To go through our own settings and create what is appropriate in our lives for us. Looking back at how I have been able to help others it has been when I least expected to without forcing or pushing the iron fist. I am able to do what is natural to me, when I am not in any (element or scope) of "trying" when I just do without looking at this with any ideas or perceptions that allow me to focus my interior mind. To not examine everything and have to (know everything precisely- to a science. Nothing is definate without a slant for change. Everything changes and sometimes these changes may mark beyond anything we could of ever sparked in our imagination
I have been learning not to get involved with (obstacles) that do not have the capacity to see me for who I am. When you hold no true attachments to anything/anyone it allows your flow to go beyond what you (thought) you could. What I can do is set me free by not EXPECTING to fulfill everyone.
I am not here to fulfill everyone needs. It's impossible and it's not condusive. Usually, this means that a person is on the brink of needing to take inventory of their life and need to make new choices. Typically these choices require one to delve into new grounds, which can cause fear, anxiety and even panic. The signs of the fear, anxiety, panic this is expanding our own limitations. Our mind cannot adapt rapidly enough as our souls can. Staying out of the way, which means not to (feel the need to help in such a overly responsible way) Feeding into the fear_drama_ which does not exist really_ a true illusion.
Whats the big deal? The big deal is us- each person to take part in your own role-make you happy first_ not by having to do anything for anyone else first. Seeking approval hurts our identitiy. Expression is what makes our hearts dance and that does not mean by fixing what may have never been broken in the first place. My heart is speaking today and I am not putting to much work into making this the ideal read with lots of logic attached. I like speaking through the heart , it allow me to stay out of the way with my ego. And quite frankly it is fun :)) I am not here to fix_ repair_ install anything. I am a toll booth that you pass through in your own journey of life.
If you are afraid I say, "congradulations!" If you say that you're confused, I say, "that is a good sign!" If you down right feel that you just do not know what to do anymore, I will respond, "You're very lucky!" I am not by any means patronizing, I am being quite truthful because its not about giving you the quick fix. Its about opening to the idea that growing may hurt at times. You will certainly feel the stretch when you are expanding into new territories. When you change from what you once were to what you are becomming, the feelings may be chaotic. However, from my stand point, its a good sign because you are gaining, not loosing. Hiding, only prolongs the pain and locks us into confusion. Facing our fears allows us to move past our blockages. This is why I am not here to "fix" people, as there is nothing to "broken" that needs "fixing." It requires to step out of your confort zone. You will know what I mean within your heart....