Dear GrandmaSage,

"I got a reading where the outcome was something that didn't make me happy.  Do you think there is a way to change the outcome or do you think I just need to find a way of dealing with what I was told would be coming?" Not Happy

Dear Not Happy,

I think your concern is one that is very widespread with all of us. Not every reading is going to have the outcome that you desire and hope for.  To me, a reading is to guide you, to point out things you can expect to occur. We are not God and we cannot make things happen for you, this you have to do for yourself.

Some things we can change, some are not changeable. I think you need to look at the guidance the reading was giving you, as well as the outcome, maybe even call the advisor back that you got the reading from and ask specific questions on what they said was coming and how to make those things work for you.

I would suggest you make a list of the pros and cons of the situation. If the cons outweigh the pros look at them and make another list with the ones you can change by effort and the ones you cannot change at all. If the ones you can change outweigh the ones you cannot start working on them. If you find that the things that are totally out of your control to change at all outweigh the others, then I think you should consider the outcome you are not happy with, and move on to another aspect of  your life.

Grandma hugs, GrandmaSage