Don't forget "You"
This is for all who have that particular someone in their life who, simply by being so important to you, has the power to make or break your mood, your day, your year or even your life. In love-relationships and the powerful bonds we feel with that significant other, the man or woman with whom we are either already partnered to or whom we hope to be partnered to, we can love so very much that we begin to allow, sometimes, less in return than that which we give.
In just the same way as you yourself go about your daily life treating others around you with the respect, fairness, caring and consideration that they are worthy of simply as human beings, don't forget to include....guess who?
*~Yourself~*
Include yourself in your inner list of those whom you cherish and would do anything for to make them happy.
Include yourself in the list of those whose boundaries you respect.
You are worthy of being called when he/she said they would call.
You are worthy of being given time in that significant person's busy life.
You are worthy of being loved.
You are worthy of being made as much a priority in his/her life as you would make that person in yours.
You are worthy of mutuality in the emotional exchange that exists between you and they.
You are worthy of that person's consistency, honesty, and steadfastness.
You are worthy of having someone in your life who puts you first.
You are worthy of having the right to walk away from a man or woman who gives you anything less than these.
You are worthy of looking to pastures new in order to fulfil these ordinary human birthrights.
Remember that being alone and open is preferable to being with someone who contributes to your sadness, confusion, and loss of other opportunities, instead of your happiness, joy in living, and fulfilment in needs being mutually met.
Don't be afraid to look for what you deserve and say "No thanks..." to the less than ideal.
By doing so, you open the way to encountering real love, mutual love, a more fitting match for you in every way, and the love you deserve, not a second-best version.
It is so very hard to pull away from that person who has caught your heart, but be careful that you remember, with all the love you are striving to give him or her, what about You? Don't forget you deserve and are worthy of good love too.