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Healing the Past is a Must Before a New Relationship Has a Chance

 

 
With the onset of Valentine's Day, are you feeling left out when you see couples holding hands and your friends receiving cards and flowers? 

For many of us, our relationships have been learning experiences... opportunities to reclaim our power and heal karma.

If you want to experience that same heart-felt romance, you must first release any painful memories that are still in your heart. If you are still thinking of your last relationship, or previous relationships along with any residual heartbreak, then that relationship is not over because you are still connected to them. In other words, you are not yet open to have a new relationship because you still have one with the person(s) from the past.

Putting a band-aid on your heart then going in search of someone to fill the void, what some would call rebound, is only a temporary fix and will not heal the underlying pain beneath the wound. Eventually the pain will surface again because your current boy/girlfriend will never be able to meet your expectations, or you may be comparing him/her to the last one.

Only by completely letting go of the past can you make room for manifesting something wonderful and long-lasting in the present.

 

Published Wednesday, February 10, 2010 12:00 PM by Heartsong

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Monday, February 08, 2010 10:03 AM by justaskdrdonna

# re: Healing the Past is a Must Before a New Relationship Has a Chance

So well written. Past wounds will block future happiness.
Monday, February 08, 2010 12:38 PM by Madea-Michelle

# re: Healing the Past is a Must Before a New Relationship Has a Chance

Very good post. Very true! If we do not heal before we enter something new, we end up dragging all the problems of the old relationship, into the new one.
Thursday, February 11, 2010 3:37 AM by Rosalea

# re: Healing the Past is a Must Before a New Relationship Has a Chance

Dear Heart:

Healing the wounds of the past, letting go and releasing them into the Universe is the ultimate act of evolution of your soul.  You need to move past the lessons you have endured to prepare for the new journey that is before you.  Your blog is so well written and informative.  Keep shedding light on a very important topic!

Rosie
Thursday, February 11, 2010 6:59 AM by Heartsong

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Thank you all for your comments and confirmation that this issue is indeed an important element towards manifesting a healthy relationship.
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