Top 10 Reasons Why HE Walks Away From the Relationship...
10. Boredom: The relationship has lost its sizzle and diversity. We always do what she wants to do. Whenever I suggest we do something different that would peak my interest she sighs and rolls her eyes.
9. Burnout: We see each other exclusively everyday and on the weekends. Sometimes I just want some alone time or to play golf with the guys on a Saturday.
8. She's Too Needy: She wants to see me three times a week. She calls and texts me everyday, sometimes two or three times a day. When I don't reply she thinks I'm with another woman or that I'm ignoring her. Maybe I'm at work in a meeting. Maybe I'm outside mowing the lawn. Or maybe I got tired of her constantly checking up on me.
7. Divergent Lives: We live in different cities... 500 miles apart. It's hard to keep up the momentum, let alone see one another on the weekends... OR... I travel a lot for business. By the time I'm done with my work day and dining out with coworkers, I just want to go to bed. I don't have the time or energy to chat on the phone for an hour every night of the week.
6. I'm in Over My Head: I like everything about her. She's pretty, she's intelligent, she's funny, and I'm starting to fall for her... But... I'm not sure I want to be exclusive, make a commitment, let alone move in together or get married.
5. I Take Her For Granted: She's always there for me. She cooks for me, even does my laundry. She waits up for me when I'm late coming home from work at night. She never complains. This is too easy.
4. She's Too Negative: All she does is complain and brood about how unhappy her life is and about the world coming to an end. Who wants to be around that all the time?
3. She Expects Me to Read Her Mind: I can tell when she's upset or angry with me. But when I ask her to talk to me about it her reply is, "You should know. You were there."
2. She Blames Me for Everything: Everything is always my fault. If I'm late because I got stuck in traffic she says, "You should have left earlier." If we have an argument or disagreement she will never own up to her participation, let alone apologize for saying anything inappropriate.
... and the number one reason why he walks away from the relationship...
1. I'm the Source of Her Happiness and Reason for Living: She has no other interests or friends outside of our relationship. She puts me on a pedestal. When she's had a bad day she expects me to "fix" it for her and make her feel good.
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