Keen Home  | Blog Policies  | Help
Welcome to Community Sign in | Join | Help

Top 10 Reasons Why SHE Walks Away from the Relationship...

 

10. It's all about the sex: Relationship? What relationship? His text messages  and phone calls consist of "What are you wearing?" We rarely go out anywhere and when we do, all he can talk about is how he can't wait to get me home into bed.

9. He has a wandering eye: Whenever he sees a pretty woman he talks about how hot she looks. He even tells me his fantasies about having a three-some with me and my best friend.

8. He checks up on me: He calls and texts me everyday, sometimes two or three times a day. When I don't reply he thinks I'm with another man. Sometimes I'll see him driving by my house checking to see if there's another car in my driveway. If my car is not there, he'll call and ask where I am.

7. Divergent lives:  We live in different cities... 500 miles apart. It's hard to keep up the momentum, let alone see one another on the weekends. He rarely calls and I haven't seen him in weeks. I feel like I'm always the one who initiates contact.

6. He won't communicate with me: I can tell when something is bothering him, especially if it's about me or our relationship. When I ask him to talk to me about it, he replies, "Everything is fine." Then he'll sit in front of the TV or his computer and give me the silent treatment.

5. He won't make a commitment: We've been dating for nearly a year now and we love one another's company. But when I talk to him about long-term plans, be it moving in together or getting married, he says he's comfortable with the way things are at present.

4. He's unreliable: We make plans to go somewhere and then he backs out at the last minute or he doesn't follow through. A week later he calls and says he wants to see me on the weekend. When I ask where and what time, he says, "I'll get back to you."

3. It's always about him: He always wants to talk about HIS successes, but rarely if ever about his failures or setbacks. When he's sick he's like a helpless child who needs his mommy. When I want to share about my successes, he's more interested in his football game. When I'm sick he feels inconvenienced because I'm not available for him.

2. He doesn't take responsibility: Everything is always my fault. If we have an argument or disagreement he will never own up to his participation, let alone apologize for saying anything inappropriate.

... and the number one reason why SHE walks away from the relationship...

1. He still communicates with and has feelings for his ex.
 


 
Click Here to View My Blog:
“Top 10 Reasons Why HE Walks Away From the Relationship”


Published Monday, October 05, 2009 1:00 PM by Heartsong

Comment Notification

Subscribe to this post's comments using RSS

Comments

Monday, October 05, 2009 1:25 PM by Rosalea

# re: Top 10 Reasons Why SHE Walks Away from the Relationship...

Excellent blog Heartsong and I have to tell you that many of the reasons you state have been relayed to me by my female clients who are contemplating divorce.  The major issue I have heard however is that he just does not listen or is too involved with work to have time to spend with her or family.  Controlling spouses are the next major issue I hear about and especially from women who are involved with those who batter their wives.  Control issues are behind every battering incident I believe.  

I thank you for sharing such insightful info.  Blessings to you

Rosie  
Monday, October 05, 2009 1:58 PM by Heartsong

# re: Top 10 Reasons Why SHE Walks Away from the Relationship...

Rosie... I agree what you say about the control issues and abuse. Women who stay in abusive/co-dependent relationships do so because they have a low self esteem, and would rather stay with a man who treats them disrespectfully than be alone.
Monday, October 05, 2009 2:03 PM by Angelic Visions

# re: Top 10 Reasons Why SHE Walks Away from the Relationship...

Excellent blog

What do you think?

(required) 
(required) 
(required) 
Enter the numbers you see into the
field below.
(required)