Emotional Meltdowns, Fear, Attack and Other Observations....
What is it that causes us to create our emotional meltdowns? First, there's the obvious: being out of control of a situation. But, deeper than this ask yourself "What am I fearing?". Control of our circumstances is a comfort zone. We know what is happening in our worlds. It's precise and on time, and always within our reach to make changes - because we choose to make those alterations in our world. When someone else enters this bubble of ours - suddenly we are without our own entire control. We have to surrender part of this. In surrendering, we also give up that part of our bubble that, prior to someone coming into our lives, hasn't been much of a problem.
So what is the huge fear factor in sharing your life bubble with someone? Abandonment? Could it be that perhaps the person whom has entered your life won't find it to be as comfortable as you'd like? And, fear = emotional meltdown; consequently, offering the appearance that you just might be a bit neurotic?
Attack also comes from fear. Lately I've been attacked a LOT. We stroll along merrily, doing our spiritual work, and out of no where...*wham*... attacked because some that call don't like what they are being told. MANY advisors here on Keen have been hit with the drive-by low ratings. Do you call because you want the fairy tail, or do you call because you sincerely want to know what's going on around you? Just food for thought....
If YOU can lose the need to control, you lose the fear. When you lose the fear, then there is nothing that you need to control. LIVE IN THE MOMENT....Just surrender it. Simple, yes?
In theory it looks good on paper. And remember: Practice makes perfect. By the way - YOU ARE perfect just by BEING!
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Sending you angels,
Jane