Help! I'm stuck in a relationship and I can't get out......
Tired of putting up with the same old doggie doo doo from Mr. Wonderful? Are you feeling trapped by "Mr. I Know He's the Perfect One" (He just needs understanding). Have you pretty much whittled away any shred of esteem that you once held because "Mr. I Really Do Love You "(just have a hard way of showing it) has robbed you of it?
If you answer yes to any of the above, it's time to exit stage right the relationship. Oh, wait - you're stuck. That's right. And when you're stuck in something there's no movement. Hmmm. Interesting equation there, don't you think? Static (s) - movement (m) = stuck (s).
What is it that keeps you where you are? Fear maybe? Fear of what, though? That there isn't someone else out there that's as cruel as "Mr. I Had a Bad Day and Will Take it out on You"? Or is it fear that you won't find the perpetual "Work in Progress" that "Mr. I Do Have A Good Side" (just won't show it to you very often) does? Or perhaps it's downright fear that you're going to *gasp* be alone without anyone around to put you down and wonder "why the hell are you two minutes late????? Who are you seeing????"
Your relationship is entirely up to you, and if you're happy with jumping through hoops much in the same fashion as a circus poodle, then by all means continue to work at it and lap your little doggie treats up eagerly, when you successfully jump through a hoop. Watch it, though, because those hoops are really sabatagoging disguises. "Well, yah, ya jumped through it, but you didn't do it fast enough, eagerly enough, or you almost missed it".
If you want productive and rewarding and a HEALTHY relationship, and would like to get "unstuck" from "Mr. Yes I Emotionally Abuse You "(and that comes with a price) call me, or email me. I don't have all the answers, just a few "food for thoughts" to get you started. You are the one that has to do all the work. (like you haven't been doing enough all ready). I guarantee you, though, I will applaud your efforts and encoursge you; unlike "Mr. Why Are You Even Trying to Make Something of Yourself " (because, of course, you 'belong' to him)......Love. Real love is NOT ownership. Period.
Little note here: no offense to the Men out there that read this, I know that there are women that fit the above profile, too.
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I'm available for your calls today. I send you angels! - Jane -
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