Jane Says..... Get some Advil
Banging head on brick only makes for headache. Get it? Stop subjecting yourself to rejection and feeling anger over something that can't be fixed and walk away from it. This may sound harsh, uncaring, and even discompassionate. I am only asking you to PLEASE - love yourself enough to look for a softer place to fall when you're falling.
Sometimes, you just have to realize that "closure" is something you're going to have to create. The person you were in a relationship with, that walked away from it, has THEIR closure; regardless if it leaves you stunned and confused and wanting to "talk about it". They are done. There isn't anything to "talk about".
Put the brick away.
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Sending you angels on this beautiful Sunday!
Jane