Should I Stay....or Should I Go?
SELF love. Self love isn't being vain or egotistical, it's a matter of
drawing boundaries to what is and what isn't acceptable to you. The
more you draw boundaries around your heart, the more you love yourself.
You know how you're being treated in a relationship- is the behavior
stirring up feelings of anger, or feelings of reaffirming how much you
are adored? The "Self" knows the difference, but may argue with you
because the "Ego Self" is making excuses for certain behaviors.
- Does
he/she call you when promised, or are you left wondering why? In this
day and age of instant messaging, cell phones, blackberries, and all
kinds of communication devices is there an excuse for not sending a
simple "hi, am thinking of you" or "how's your day?"
- Does he/she
not make solid plans with you, but instead, says "sure, MAYBE we can
get together?" (you better make other plans, because this is a major
red flag you're "Plan B").
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Does he/she surf the internet looking for something, not necessarily 'better' but just LOOK at what's 'out there'? (In other words, is your significant "other" making you feel "insignificant"?)
All of the above are things you COULD make excuses for the behavior,
but what is it that your heart KNOWS that your head refuses to BELIEVE?
We ALL believe in Love and want someone to share our lives with, but
are YOU the only one participating in your relationship? When is it
time to drop the fear of not having someone in your life that isn't
"present" with you, so that you can ALLOW someone that IS present to
share with you?
All things in good time. Actually, I call it divine time. When you are
ready to put boundaries on what IS and what ISN'T acceptable behavior
to YOUR standards, then you will be in a space where you WILL make the
appropriate decision that will be YOUR choice...
Available for your calls today!
Merry, Merry - Sending you angels,
Jane