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Thanks for Giving.......................

Dear Flakey Ex boyfriend:

Thanks for giving.

Thanks for giving me absolutely nothing when I put all the effort into the relationship.

Thanks for giving me the humiliation when you paraded your girlfriend around town when I thought we were still together.

Thanks for giving me false hope that when you said you wanted to be "Friends" and "get back into a happier place with me" that what it meant was you wanted to be free to date.

Thanks for giving me the confusion, and headaches that I got from trying to make rhyme and reason out of something that made no reason (not to mention rhyme).

Thanks for giving me all the mixed messages, and playing daisy with my emotions (he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not).

Thanks for giving me such a hateful and despicable display of your brattiness, because you feel left out today. She didn't want you, I didn't want you.

Thanks for giving me the guilt because YOU suddenly find yourself without anything to do today, on Thanksgiving, and you're going to have a baloney sandwich; whereas I have been invited to friends....where you insist I have a "date" (like that's such a bad thing?)

Thanks for giving me the opportunity to see how much of a total flake and jerk you are, and so sorry that your Plan "A" fell through and that I, as Plan "B" didn't come running when you asked.

Thanks for giving me the strength to tell you just how flakey you are.

Yes, there is a lot to be thankful for today. And, I owe it to you, Flakey ex boyfriend for providing such a laundry list of gratitude.

Sincerely,
The magnificent, wonderful, thoughtful, beautiful woman that didn't live up to your standards; but then again, Thanks for giving me the fortitude to see that you no way match my standards.
What are YOU most thankful for????
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I am available for your calls this morning,
and I wish all a Very Happy Thanksgiving. 
Sending you angels,
Jane
Published Thursday, November 22, 2007 8:51 AM by Jane Wilcox

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Thursday, November 22, 2007 8:26 AM by Mike Pace

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Thank YOU, Jane for not being a doormat to that JACKass any more. :)
Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:19 AM by Jane Wilcox

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Well, Mike, this isn't about ME of course....
xoxo, Jane
Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:22 AM by JAYNE`

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....I'm thankful you wrote this today. :)
I know exactly what it feels like to be the "EMERGENCY BACK-UP UNIT". And to smile serenely while the ex flake acts stunned that you already have plans and are unavailable to him at the last minute (and I do mean the VERY last minute).
I adviced Mr. ex !@#$%*%)!! to use this time wisely, meditate, get in touch with his higher self, check out his chakras, because the direct link between him and I had been severed and I felt he had a blockage (his head up his hiney). The days of meee being his "Emergency Back-up Unit" were in the past.
We are soooooo much better than that!
Happy Thanksgiving!

...okay, I know I'm going to working on my karma here, but surely I have already paid with what I've been through.... :)
Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:45 AM by Rosalea

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Woohoo Jane you go girl!  You are a bright shiny star and when you left him behind you shut off the light in his world.  Don't look back honey and just keep on moving forward because by next Thanksgiving you are going to look back at this blog and giggle your head off!  Blessings to you and enjoy the day!

Rosie
Thursday, November 22, 2007 10:07 AM by Jane Wilcox

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Rosie, darlin, I AM giggling now. It's a Universe *wink* moment. Clarity is the greatest gift of all...and a few darts mingled with it doesn't hurt, right?

Blessings to YOU!
Jane
Thursday, November 22, 2007 4:39 PM by JAYNE`

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Lol....think it was Vodka :)
Saturday, November 24, 2007 9:32 AM by Deere1

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Thank you for sharing this......It states how I feel and how I was treated. It made me realize just what the relationship was and why after leaving me 5 months ago to be with someone else - why he stays in my life just enough to keep me hooked, keep me stuck thinking he does really care and will come back around, how I just can't seem to let him go and see him for the RAT that he is. Thank you for opening my eyes even though it feels terrible that I allowed myself to feel "not good enough" when it is him. No more scraps, no more second, and no more back-up time for me!

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