That Crazy Lil Thang Called Love......
WHY doesn't he feel the way I feel? We have SUCH a DEEP connection!!!
Oh, pleassssssse - not another blog post on LOVE *yawn*. Nope. Sure
isn't. Today I want to share with you falling in and out of love. That
intangible thing that you know is there - much like air - you can't SEE
it, but you sure can feel it.
Here's an analogy: You're in a fine dining restaurant, relishing in
your dinner (say it's a fillet mignon and lobster) You LOVE fillet
mignon, and lobster. You LIVE for it, and you enjoy it. You could eat
it every day and still want more. Your partner, however, may think that
it's okay. He (sorry, no gender specific insults implied here) doesn't
mind having fillet mignon and lobster. He enjoys it with you on
occasion, but the reality, a steady diet of it isn't real appealing. He
would rather eat at Micky D's and snarf down a Quarter Pounder with
cheese, and an order of fries.
So, try as hard as you will - you cannot for the life of you understand
why someone would prefer a stupid hamburger to steak & lobster!
What is wrong with this person????
The point is, that although YOU feel the connection, you LOVE it, you
RELISH it - and expect that because YOU have all these wonderful
feelings for it, you EXPECT your partner to share the experience with
you. He will, to some degree, but the truth is, he would be just as
happy with a hamburger.
Once you accept that, and honor that he prefers hamburger to what YOU
adore, your life is going to suddenly become a lot less complicated. I
am absolutely NOT implying or suggesting that you alter your taste to
accommodate him. Quite the opposite, actually. Think about it: you
DESERVE and want someone that shares your love for what YOU love.
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I'm available for your calls today!
Sending you angels,
Jane