The Big "F" Word.....
FREE - it's my favorite 4-letter "F" word!
Freedom, Liberating, out of bondage.
Are you in a relationship that makes you feel as if you're afraid to say anything regarding your feelings? And, when you do say what you "feel" you get the heavy, exasperated *sigh* because your significant other just doesn't want to talk anymore about it? Does it feel like a chore just to smile around him/her? Are your feet hurting from walking on those eggshells? Do you hang on every word, trying to analyze just what it means? The actions that he/she does confuse you? Does it drive you nuts wondering what he/she is thinking, or doing without you?
Ok, newsflash: YOU NEED A BREAK. I know what you're going to say..."If I step back, he will just go further from me, and I'm AFRAID he/she won't talk to me again". Oh, no - not so. You're suffocating right now. You're smothering him/her with YOUR NEED for reassurances. Guess what? The more YOU NEED assurances, the FEWER you're going to get.
Set yourself FREE from this situation. Leave it alone just for a few days. It is only going to get worse before it gets better with the way you're insistent on pushing right now. I know you're not ready or wanting the relationship to end, but if you persist at this rate, you're on a train wreck, anyway.
Step back. See the forest through the trees. Inhale and enjoy the blue skies and greenery of the trees. What have you got to lose? You're fighting a losing battle anyway. He/She is either going to exhale with you and come back around, or it's ending. Give it a rest. Give it some time. LET GO just for today. Do something that suits YOU - just for today.
Set yourself FREE from your anxieties, fears, and need for security....in this freedom that you've gifted to yourself, you are gaining control. Get it?
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Make it a GREAT Saturday!
I'm available for your calls
if you need to know if it's worth it to "hang in there"!
Sending you angels,
Jane