Tough Choices in Relationships........Are they really so "Tough"?
“Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first,
the lesson afterward.” -Vernon Law
I
have always felt since we are created perfect in God's eyes, and
we're given the gift of "free will" to choose paths - we do not make
mistakes, we experience lessons based on the choices that we make. Most of the
time, these "lessons” teach us a multitude of what we need to
learn in order to grow spiritually and become better humans.
All
too often we feel regret over the choices that we make; however- ask you,
"What did I learn from this?" It is likely that you will arrive
at a variety of answers to this question, thus pushing any "regret” over
your choice well into the background.
Our
choices bring the reward of new beginnings, fresh approaches to challenging
circumstances, and new people to enrich our lives. Then, the time comes when we
are confronted with yet more choices to make for what we may feel
is to the betterment of our futures and even more opportunity for growth
spiritually.
Often,
regardless of how much you may want something to be the right choice for you,
circumstances dictate that it truly was just a poorly thought out direction for
you to take.
When
it's time to move forward, put thought into what is behind your action. When
it's time to make change occur, put equal thought behind the action. It's the
impulsive actions we make that bring the most regret - and the hardest lessons
to be learned.
Moving
on, moving forward... is it time for YOU to evaluate where YOU are?
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Cheers
for a wonderful day!
I'm available for your calls and I send you angels,
Jane