What is so Intimate about WILD SLEEP?
Ok, Ladies, listen up. This is straight from the horse's mouth - my
adorable, single 27-year old nephew. Yes, he's a cutie pie, and has
never had a problem attracting the attention of single ladies (and a
few that aren't single....*ahem*). He recently started dating a girl.
Well, Yippie for him. He doesn't go too long without someone
significant in his life, but this time around he did take quite a break
and focused on being alone, enjoying the things he likes to do and
basically defining the quality of woman he wants in his life.
I had the opportunity to talk to him on Thanksgiving about his new
interest. He attracted quality, because he was focused on quality!
No, he wasn't ready to bring her around the "Fam" yet -
understandable considering my family; however, he is doing things with
her that are fun, and finding common ground. They've been dating 3
weeks, and manage to see each other at least 3 or 4 times a week. He
told me that she'd spent the night with him for the 3rd time. "OH???" I
asked - "already???"
"No, Aunt Janie, it wasn't like THAT.... she just spent the night". Ahh
as in a "sleepover?" "yep something like that". So, you're having wild
sleep with her?
Yes. He is having wild sleep. He actually RESPECTS the fact that she's
putting the brakes on moving into the sex arena too soon. Gee, he must be smitten
- or growing up and realizing the fact that ANYONE can have sex, but
not just ANYONE will take the time to get to know a person before
diving into that area of a new relationship.
And the really great part of it is that NEITHER one of them are
"withholding" in an attempt to just "play games" - they genuinely LIKE
each other and he is willing to wait to see what develops.
Since this line of thought has always been a strong statement with ME, I feel especially
proud of the fact that maybe some of the lectures I've given to him are
sinking in.
Moral of blog today: GET TO KNOW the person you've met. See for
yourself if that person is worth your time and energy before you get
too physical with that person.
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Sending you angels,
Jane