Why the "Blame Shame Guilt" Trips?
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self-de·struc·tive adj.
- Tending to do harm to one’s
self.
Self-Destructiveness has
the ABSENCE of:
self-esteem n 1: a
feeling of pride in yourself [syn: self-pride] 2:
the quality of being worthy of esteem or respect; "it was beneath his
dignity to cheat"; "showed his true dignity when under pressure"
[syn: dignity, self-respect, self-regard]
AND
self-re·spect n.
Due respect for oneself, one's character, and one's conduct.
Without SELF RESPECT,
and without SELF-ESTEEM, most will do something that will REINFORCE LOW SELF
WORTH, which is basically, self-destructive.
For example: having sex
with someone you don’t know….
IT HAS NOTHING TO DO
WITH INTIMACY.
It is LACK of REGARD
FOR SELF.
You feel worthless, You
have no self-respect. You do something that will make you feel humiliated; and
you do something that is GOING TO REINFORCE THIS. What you do with “A perfect
stranger” has nothing to do with love or intimacy – and everything to do with
the lack of self-respect you feel for yourself. Afterward, you are able to say, “See,
you are worthless, and you don’t deserve anything”.
Why does this cycle continue?
Because you don’t get out of your “loathing space”, and you continue your own
self-punishment; because you have no emotional attachment, it IS easy to
DETACH, and continue to punish yourself in this self-destructive space.
The angels WANT you to
LOVE YOURSELF, and have RESPECT for the life you’ve been gifted. Are you
snagged in the “blame, shame guilt” trip of self-hatred? Do you realize that
this is something that you create?
The Universe has perfect, unconditional love
for YOU. Why is it so difficult for some to understand this? Why is it that
some are so intent on inviting relationships into their lives that are
detrimental and contradictory to the unconditional love that has been bestowed
to them?
Today, take ten minutes
to love yourself. Look in the mirror and smile at the beautiful person that you
are. Do not find fault, but SEE the beauty in you and let your inner light
shine forward!
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I'm available this morning for your calls!
Sending you angels,
Jane